The trauma of a loved one’s passing, the end of a meaningful relationship, or the rejection of a loved one often results in a tremendous amount of stress. Do you act as if everything is fine when it isn’t?
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Writer: Chloe Avenasa
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Is this trauma? I was in my kitchen at the age of six or seven (not a joke) and my dad was hitting my mother because of money and she was ready had to take care of 6 children. And I was yelled to get out The kitchen but I was shock and scared then my dad yelled louder making me run to my older brother. My grandparents didn’t care about my mother since they be hitting her to, and I feel bad and terrible for not being able to do anything, I feel like I should’ve done something but I was so scared and so small, I couldn’t watch so I cried with my other younger sisters who both was the age of 4-5 and 3-4, and my brothers who was a lot older seemed like they were to busy on their phones to notice and when they realized they tried their best to calm me and my two other sisters down. I kinda forgot what happened next but when my dad was done I ran to my mother and check on her and cried to see her eye was red like when you got red veins in it and it was swollen and bruised and I cried and cried until my mother calmed me down along with my brothers. It’s not like my grandparents were bad me to us kids but they would have more attention on the girls, I was my grandpa’s favorite but even tho I felt bad and my brothers kinda hated me for it.. I never asked for it.. I just felt worse and like it was all my fault, I was spoiled but I have watched abused up close with my dad and my mother and also were Im living now at 14 years old my aunt ISNT abusive and she is pretty nice! But she does have us in a corner with me and my sister’s arms up for hours and we would tear because of the pain and she just say “shut up” or “shut the hell up and stop crying before I give you something to cry about” then we cry quiet and to our self. This is other reason why I keep my problems quiet and I cry alone about this, and I do get suicidal thoughts most of the time and I say to myself “this world will be better without me honestly..” but every time I want to k¡l| myself i cry more because I got people who actually care like my friends i meet online, but people online can be dangerous, and I was in this relationship I had ONLINE and we be having face time and all but she ended up guilt tricking me and she was a pick up and she will use my trust issues as a advantage and she broke up with me randomly but immediately asked to get back together. With my trust issues I agreed because she was who I loved and I thought deep down that she was the one because she was kind and caring but I ended up breaking up with her bc I was gay, but she stayed on me like a leach and she forced me into other relationship with her but then she ended cheating and lying about it so I just blocked her. I ended up adding her back and just talked and we are “friends” but I don’t trust my best friends anymore, and one of my friends ended up going into my account and did something and tried to scare my other friends but he knew that didn’t work so he went to my house threatened me and told my mom that I was going to his house and hurt me then my friend who I didn’t meet online but we talk on online mostly they had to come save me and im glad but I didn’t trust him at first so I just walked with him not wanting them to touch me because I don’t want them to hit me or something but I know they are helping but nty… i DONT even trust ANYONE not even family members and adults I know. Im just the quiet one in my group chat. Also my aunt every time me and my sister makes a mistake she would scold us then she will talk out loud to her friends humiliating me and my sister making me feel worthless, Im not sure about my sister tho but this is how I feel, she would yell and focus and talk about the mistakes and bad thing but she will never say anything about the good stuff or help we try our best on, and i cant even sit still without moving my leg or rocking slightly wand Im doing that right now as I type and it’s hard to stop. I feel like others like me because Im doing something useful or helpful, i dont think Im useful and i see peopel of movie goes through something bad i end up wondering what would I do if I was in their but its not in a good way.. I really HATE my body and face because I got a little comments from some family members like “you look like your father” or “you and your father look alike!” And knowing what my father did I don’t wanna be like him. I normal hide my feelings, get scared because I don’t wanna get yelled at for a question, Im scared to open up my feelings, and im scared to tell anyone about me being a trans male. I hate it, I hate my body,I hate my hair, I hate my clothes choices, I hate my face, I hate my ears, I hate my feet, I hate my hands, I hate my nose, I hate trusting people, I hate getting compliments because I don’t even know if they are true, I hate my eyebrows, I hate my eyes, I hate my voice, I hate being woman, I hate making a mess and getting yelled at to clean it up like I was already about to do,I hate myself, I hate everything about me. I wish I can just die…but I don’t wanna die… 🙁
All 9.😢
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("To be continued")
I have all of these too 🙁
But even so.. be happy, guys ♥
I know how hard it is. I’m currently dealing with physical and verbal bullying, and my mental health isn’t in a good place.
But I believe in you. You’re stronger than you think, and you can do this >:3 ♥
So i do 😢
Unhealed trauma shows up in patterns of emotional reactivity and pain—recognizing the signs is the first step to healing. 💙✨
Wait, why does this actually sound like me…
When i was 11 my friend didn't want to go home because her step-dad was abusive and her mother knew. I remember watching as my friend was being yelled at and dragged into the car by her mother. I kept trying to run to her and protect my friend but my mum told me to butt out and now I can't stop thinking about it
Could I have helped her? Maybe if I successfully got to her we would still be friends..
Definitely Me 🫠🙂
Lifetime of trauma. I have been diagnosed with cptsd. Therapy isn't helping
I have sign 3 and 5. My parents fight a lot. About 2 years ago, my mom got so mad that we weren't cleaning fast enough so she grabbed a broom and tried to hit us with it. Luckily both of my siblings are ok. My older sister locked herself in the bathroom. Im pretty sure my older brother hid under my bed. I hid under a table. One time in the car my dad and mom got in a fight and my mom grabbed my brother's phone and said she was going to throw it out the window if my dad didn't shut up. His phone didn't get thrown but during it I tried to ignore it but I couldn't and started to cry and my dad dropped us off at my grandma's house and they fought and ever since my mom and dad didn't see each other that much and my dad moved to a different house still in my town but far away.
Im just gonna explain my trauma but it's not very close to trauma but term here I go:
I've been going through anxiety attacks since I was 8 and I still have them.. They make me feel like I'm a mistake or I'm not enough and that makes me hate myself so I have this feeling to commit s***d and uh I don't wanna end my life but I also do so I just sit there alone and kids also make fun of me for not looking good so..yeah..
The end 🙁
I have 1,3,4,5
I got trauma from a dreeam 💀
I had trauma when I was born so 14 the trauma still continues
Yeah i have all of these
Your channel has helped me a lot. I just want to say thank you
Ok I have trauma I haven’t talk about-
I have healed…… I took me more than 3-4 years
Ill do a story of my childhood trauma, please dont judge me…
So i was 11 and i had a bf, he was 12. One day at school, at the sports hour, we we're doing a basketball match with the entire class. Sadly, i couldnt be in team with him… The match ended and my team won, but as all of us we're going home, he stopped on the sports classroom and waited for all the others to leave, but while they left, he also roasted the ones from my team.
When everyone finally left, i was the last in the group and he grabbed me by my backpack and pushed me towards him. I screamed "WTH IS WRONG WITH YOU?" and he stopped, but after we made eye contact for like 4 mins he started punching me in the chest, and after like 1 hour of doing that i told him "LET ME GO!" and he grabbed me, pushed me on the ground and said "YOU WERENT SUPPOSED TO WIN THE MATCH!" and he grabbed a badminton pallete and stabbed me right in the eye for 5 minutes. After that, a teacher finally heard me screaming and called the ambulance. While the ambulance was coming, the teacher took the pallete and tried bandaging my eye, but my so called "Bf" also punched the teacher and kept stabbing me in the eye.
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I had demonic thoughts from age 6 after SA. I was kid napped for 14mo. Thoughts tormented me until I was 50yo. Doctors, meds, counseling and church didn't help me.
I went thru a 1hr Deliverance 7yrs ago that cast out 26 demonic spirits.
Ever since then, I've never had negative thoughts, feelings, emotions; nothing but peace and ❤️
I started reading my Bible cover to cover every month.
I Read along as I Listen to my Audio Bible.
72Hr÷30Days=2.4Hrs
10% Time > Money 😇
A-Z Acts-Zephaniah instead of Gen to Revelation.
I was so ashamed when I realized that during my years in the Lukewarm church, that I had never once read my Bible. I did 100s of Cherry Picking Bible Studies; so 75% were taken out of context. Most of my Free-Time outside of church and working was wasted on watching TV, Netflix, FB, YT, TikTok, Prn, Sports, 2Hr Workouts, Socializing, Drinking, Traveling, Working O.T., Sleeping in, etc
" God Won't Make Us
Worship Him Forever
If We Don't Want to
Worship Him Now! "
I don’t like change I’m absolutely a creature of habit I’m only really scared of a specific failure and that’s partially why I’m scared to be happy I’m scared that if I’m happy bad things will happen and my life’s goal of having a family scares me because I am terrified of losing them
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