Why Wasn’t Lesbian Sex Illegal?



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Sources:
Acton, W. 1871. The Functions and Disorders of the Reproductive Organs

Carmichael Stopes, M, 1931. Married Love, pg 30

Hansard, HC Deb 06 August 1885, Vol 300 Col. 1386

Hansard, HL Deb 15 August 1921 Vol 43 Col. 573-574

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29 Comments

  1. Honestly? The biggest obstacle to women engaging in lesbian sex circa the 1800s / early 1900s would be to actually meet with each other, I'd guess. With the exception of mostly lower (working) class women, most women were confined to their homes almost all the time. Any lesbian hanky panky would have to remain within the household (ew). Otoh, there were the servants…

  2. Too many comments to see if this is a novel observation… but I read years ago that WW1 killed so many young British men that a generation of British women faced a choice of no romance or shacking up with another woman. The claim was all over Britain by the 1920s there were numerous same sex households of 2 women simply because of WW1.

  3. Every time this video pops up on my reccomended (which is shockingly often), my brain always reads it as Sesbian Lex instead. I genuinely have to take a few moments to read it correctly.

  4. I (and I’m sure many others) would love to see the “10 pound traveler” series you mention at the end of the video. Too bad I can’t cuz it’s only on nebula. You’d probably make more money putting it on YouTube anyway from ad revenue.

  5. I’m basically writing a paper on this same topic but for Russian history. I think something worth mentioning for medieval times is how sex is defined. According to the Hebrew Bible, sex is an act performed on someone, this is why it’s only illegal to take dick up the ass and not fuck a guy in the ass.

  6. I was in the Navy in the late 90s/ early 00s… There was an openly gay woman on my ship that everyone knew was a lesbian and it was NEVER an issue. A man and his best friend got caught having fun together in a closet (lol, literally) and they were immediately kicked out.
    Sigh.

  7. I dated a Bi woman. She NEVER brought it home, and it was never ever in my face. But, after we broke up, her girlfriend was trying to pick me up. Actually, she had two girlfriends, I did date the younger of the two for a while, but we were just buddies. But, lets be honest. I'm not sure the ex-girlfriend was bi at all. She got a job from one ex, she got vehicles from other ex's, she got a house with one ex, she got her house fixed with me, etc. etc. She even moved out of her house and into an apartment with the next guy, and left her kids at the house. She got things from her boyfriends. She never said one thing about the girlfriends.

  8. The homophobia is horrible of course, but just the idea of a bunch of posh british dudes in a room discussing lesbian sex very officially is absolutly hilarious to me, like what i wouldn't give to be a fly on the wall laughing hysterically

  9. Lmao! “Obviously WE think about gay sex all the time but women left to their own devices never would!” Is the best out of touch man logic I’ve heard in quite some time. 😂

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