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  1. As an introvert myself I just picture not everyone as extroverts… Lots I know are introverts (there's many kinda of intros!!). And then hope social situations aren't socially draining lol

  2. I wish people understood these were different. So many people say I’m not an introvert because I know how to talk to new people easily. I’m drained by them, but I can still do it without issue

  3. I come off as extroverted in social situations or meeting new people (sometimes) but dear God I can only handle it for 3 hours tops! I can handle more with my one special person but not much more

  4. thanks…I am being an INFJ A…always got told that i talk too much and i am an extrovert and i believed it too …till i read white nights…understood being an extroverted introvert.😅😢…

  5. I have spent a year and a half to get myself used to the college environment. Literal (orientation in the buildings, zone as I am quite awkward at coordination), not social (I am still not good at socializing yet, but better)… Also, I have seen/met some people, socialized with them, and took a break for a year to recharge. Sometimes, it is 4 months, and sometimes, it is a month. Guess my introversion is extreme. Also, between asking for directions from a stranger and walking by foot 5 km, I chose the latter one. But, I also met 3 friendly cats 🐈‍⬛🐱🐈 and a lot of ducks on the way 🦆🦆🦆🦆🦆! As well as working out my footstep counts (~6,000/10,000). Introversion has its perks, too.

  6. It’s a fact that some don’t realize. I’m 100% an introvert. Being around people wears me out and overstimulates me… it is exhausting. But I’m not shy or nervous around others. I can be THE life of the party – but I’ll go home two hours early and refuse to go to another social function for another year. Being alone fills my tank.

  7. Introvert here. I definitely been labeled as shy from Extroverts and have been asked if I need to go to therapy by them. I ended up explaining that being an Introvert doesn't mean I need therapy based on someone's rudeness and disrespectful which was given to me at that moment. They never came near me after I added that they need to learn that they are not healers to Introverts and have to keep their mouths shut for they are disrespectful rude.

  8. Once again…I am painfully shy, but it doesn't solely stem from the fear of others judging me. Where do you get your information from? Have you learned through actual serious research? Like extensive studies, etc., or just light reading ? Have you actually spent extended periods of time with shy or introverted people? You speak as if we are all the same and that there are set reasons for why we are the way we are. The reality is that we are not all the same, and we experience what we do for a myriad of reasons. The causes and effects of shyness, introversion, anxiety, depression, etc., are not so black and white. My opinion is that there is much still to learn. 🙂

  9. I'm shy and an introvert, and I even thought about starting doing tiktoks to help myself stop fearing being judged although I KNOW ppl judge on social media 😅

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